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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)I married a beautiful man. We have 3 beautiful children. About a year ago he started to let himself go, and now I think unless he does something about his weight out marriage might be over.
For one thing, I can't bear to look at him naked. It makes me feel physically ill. I don't even want him in my bed anymore. He sweats so much. Also, I can't have meals with him anymore. Watching him eat disgusts me. A healthy human being should not be able to put away a whole pizza like that. Finally, I don't want him around my children. I don't want them to grow up thinking 'This is what a man should be'.
So, yes, I agree. Fat men are harmful and disgusting.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)Most married people can tolerate weight fluctuations (because hey, it happens when you get older) and changes in appearance, if you love someone then they would never straight up make you "physically ill."
I am very serious, please PLEASE go to counseling or therapy. These are not the sort of thoughts you should have about your husband.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
I can understand finding someone unattractive (or less attractive than before) if they gain a lot of weight and you really aren't into that. However, I don't see how that would generate such resentment and deep disgust unless there were something else going on there.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)While i disagree with you, it should read "Fat people are harmful and disgusting."
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:26 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:23 am (UTC)(link)At least she has a good excuse for bodily change :P
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:27 am (UTC)(link)no subject
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:21 am (UTC)(link)You're awesome. Very obvious, but awesome.
I can't count anymore how many times I've seen a guy rant about his girlfriend or wife this way.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:45 am (UTC)(link)Re: +1
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 02:08 am (UTC)(link)no subject
Poe's Law, indeed.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)How do we know anyone is being serious anymore on the internet yet we're expected to take some comments more serious than others depending on who the "victim" of the comment is.
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(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:31 am (UTC)(link)