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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-26 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2367 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Chiming in with the 'Fat men are disgusting':

I married a beautiful man. We have 3 beautiful children. About a year ago he started to let himself go, and now I think unless he does something about his weight out marriage might be over.

For one thing, I can't bear to look at him naked. It makes me feel physically ill. I don't even want him in my bed anymore. He sweats so much. Also, I can't have meals with him anymore. Watching him eat disgusts me. A healthy human being should not be able to put away a whole pizza like that. Finally, I don't want him around my children. I don't want them to grow up thinking 'This is what a man should be'.

So, yes, I agree. Fat men are harmful and disgusting.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think the problem in your marriage is just that your husband gained some weight, I seriously think you need to go into counseling and talk about why you have these issues.

Most married people can tolerate weight fluctuations (because hey, it happens when you get older) and changes in appearance, if you love someone then they would never straight up make you "physically ill."

I am very serious, please PLEASE go to counseling or therapy. These are not the sort of thoughts you should have about your husband.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed -- especially the whole "I don't want my children around him" business. They're his kids too, and he probably doesn't want them around someone who treats other people with such disrespect and disgust.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-06-27 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding both you and AYRT. It sounds like there's some serious shit going on here, and it's not just about his weight.

I can understand finding someone unattractive (or less attractive than before) if they gain a lot of weight and you really aren't into that. However, I don't see how that would generate such resentment and deep disgust unless there were something else going on there.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
The fact that you are unhappy in your marriage and no longer attracted to your husband does not make an entire class of people objectively "disgusting." Except perhaps the fatshaming!anons in this thread. Who are actually probably only one person anyway, so again, not an entire class of people.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
"Fat men are harmful and disgusting"

While i disagree with you, it should read "Fat people are harmful and disgusting."

(Anonymous) 2013-06-26 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
While, despite pumping three kids out of your gaping vag and getting progressively older and worn down, you still look like a model. Of course.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-06-27 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Returning snottiness with snottiness...very productive.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Nobody owes anybody 'productive' here.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
That vag better be gaping while pumping out a child x 3.
At least she has a good excuse for bodily change :P

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
So does he. Being married to the person who made that comment would make pretty much any guy comfort-eat.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
Horseshit. If she didn't work her cunt off to lose that baby fat in two months, she's nothing but a big fat lazy whale.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
"I married a beautiful man. We have 3 beautiful children. About a year ago he started to let himself go, and now I think unless he does something about his weight out marriage might be over."

You're awesome. Very obvious, but awesome.
I can't count anymore how many times I've seen a guy rant about his girlfriend or wife this way.

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
except she's clearly not being obvious enough because people aren't getting it

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Poe's Law.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
Guess I just don't hang where the douchebags are.
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[personal profile] ariakas 2013-06-27 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
...I am also kind of dumbfounded by how obvious this is and how no one seems to get it o_O

Poe's Law, indeed.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
No I got it. I just don't think it's an appropriate response.

How do we know anyone is being serious anymore on the internet yet we're expected to take some comments more serious than others depending on who the "victim" of the comment is.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-27 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Since this marriage is apparently over, next time pick somebody you actually like instead of just somebody you think is pretty. Pretty don't last.