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Re: How much contact should adopted PoC children have with the culture of their birth?
(Anonymous) 2013-06-29 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)Re: How much contact should adopted PoC children have with the culture of their birth?
(Anonymous) 2013-06-30 01:36 am (UTC)(link)Re: How much contact should adopted PoC children have with the culture of their birth?
(Anonymous) 2013-06-30 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)I'm curious, what if they HAVE lost the cultural knowledge to do so? Then what? I find these cultural discussions interesting, and yet they appear to be fraught with peril, too, because they inevitably seem to be set up as competitions - not alternatives, but competitions, where one is a winner and one a loser.
It's also a bit of a sticky wicket for me because I personally believe that girls should be raised to be self-determining, to have their own agencies. I am aware that other cultures may place a higher value on religious obedience, and believe the woman needs to be subservient in order to preserve social harmony, etc. Both sides may hold strongly held opinions here - but am I automatically diminishing another culture's value because I believe women shouldn't be subservient? Like I said, sticky wicket.
In any case, I hope that we can all agree that children shouldn't be dying of neglect. If there's a family that can provide for them, then it should, and the other considerations can remain important, but I would hope that the child's health and welfare should be primary importance.