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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-06 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2377 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2377 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
DA. There's a difference between someone who wanted a child but after it's born and now they have all these responsibilities they reject the child, and someone who never wanted the child in the first place so they put the kid up for adoption. The former is abnormal and should seek psychological treatment (possibly even medication if it's due to postpartum depression).

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

But it sounds like this girl never wanted the baby to begin with, she's just keeping it because she feels like she has to, and probably WOULD give it up for adoption if she thought she could.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 07:56 am (UTC)(link)
A lot of people love the idea of children without fully comprehending that kids, while beautiful and priceless and all that jazz, are also totally helpless, utterly stressful, complicated, and permanent additions to one's life, and a person doesn't have to be abnormal to be shortsighted about that burden until it lands, needy and screaming, into their lives.

Sometimes it's depression, and sometimes some people were never cut out to be parents even at the height of mental health.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-07-07 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, and those people need to seek family counseling for the benefit of the child. It's an unhealthy environment to raise anyone in. I feel sorry for you that you refuse to see that.