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Re: On gender, clothing, size and fitness.
(Anonymous) 2013-07-10 12:08 am (UTC)(link)Awhile ago I sort of maybe a little bit had an eating disorder. There was calorie counting and a few binge/purge episodes and general unhealthy ideas floating around. I found a forum with other people who thought like I did, but instead of dragging me down further it actually helped me get a handle on things and focus on more healthy weightloss methods. It wasn't 100% healthy, but it was a support group where I could be myself and talk about the crazy and have people encourage healthy ways. We would even have "healthy competitions" where we would need to keep calorie counts above and below a certain level, eat healthy foods and exercise in a healthy manner. It sounds messed up, but that forum was the only time in my life where I actually started to lose weight and feel okay about my body.
Then, as happens on the internet, the forum slowed down, people stopped posting as much, we started to drift apart, and eventually the website disappeared.
Over the years I've gone up and down in weight but the past two years I've only gone steadily up. Now I have no idea what to do. I don't know what's considered healthy thinking when it comes to food, weight, and body image. I don't really have anyone irl to talk to about this and feel so alone and depressed about it all.
TL;DR - I wish there was some sort of small forum or group of people I could go to that would motivate, support, encourage me and I could do the same for them.