[ SECRET POST #2385 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2385 ⌋

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Comments

[diet_poison]

It's like a "the best revenge is successfully moving on" kind of thing.

I'm not sure I understand how this goes along with everything else you just said.

And expecting you, or anyone else, to specifically pity someone isn't really what I'm talking about. It's more the whole "I'm delighted by the fact that you aren't/will never be happy again, and I'm delighted that you are miserable [despite the fact that I understand what it's like to be miserable]". I really can't relate to that.

I think my own personal beliefs/philosophies are influencing the way I see this very strongly. I'm not trying to stand around here and say "I JUDGE U" but I am sharing my opinion on the experience since it's what OP started talking about. If I started to feel that way about someone who had hurt me, like being really happy that they were miserable, I'd start to feel like I was sinking to their level and turning into someone like them.

It just occurred to me - I think there's a lot of subtlety that's being left out of this conversation. It's hard to describe exactly what a person is feeling/thinking/going through.