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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-23 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2394 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2394 ⌋

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Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
How is it simplistic? If love includes all those things I listed, it's not very different from abuse. If your definition of love includes abuse, I think it's disturbing and impractical. It's not simplistic to say that the term "love" maaaaybe shouldn't be applied to something like that.

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
They're not mutually exclusive at all, though. Children of abuse at times have to struggle to come to terms with the fact that their parents did love them, and yet somehow still behaved abusively toward them. Abuse would be so much easier to rationalize if you could remove love altogether, but sometimes you can't.

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-07-24 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, abuse is a behavior and love is an emotion. Different people can have the same emotion that originates from the same place, but their expression of it depends on what skills they learned growing up. Some people learn it wrong.