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fandomsecrets2013-07-24 06:43 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-07-24 06:43 pm
[ SECRET POST #2395 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[The Most Popular Girls in School]
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[Welcome to Night Vale]
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[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]
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[Mastumoto Jun]
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[Macdonald Hall]
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[Downton Abbey]
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[Generator Rex]
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[Neil Oliver]
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[Star Trek]
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[Star Trek: TNG]
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[The Vampire Diaries]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 025 secrets from Secret Submission Post #342.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: be honest
The financially dependent thing was relevant to the original question, which was'well do you have any thoughts about what you'll do if that doesn't work out?'
The ambition statement was originally more general: I do indeed not understand it if people have no ambition. I do think this is true for at least some stay at home parents, though, if I'm honest. But it's also true for some bank employees.
I didn't infer they were lazy, it's more about limiting yourself, I guess. Why would you stick to just that if your ability to take care of kids gives you skills you could use for other things, too? And why not take into account the job market at all, if only for later?
Re: be honest
I guess the long and the short of if is you don't have to want to do it, you don't have to understand it, but looking down on it in the way that seem to be doing is very judgmental in a bad way.