[ SECRET POST #2395 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2395 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[The Most Popular Girls in School]


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03.
[Welcome to Night Vale]


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04.
[Gerard Way and Frank Iero]


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05.
[Mastumoto Jun]


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06.
[Macdonald Hall]


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07.
[Downton Abbey]


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08.
[Generator Rex]


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09.
[Neil Oliver]


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10.
[Star Trek]


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11.
[Star Trek: TNG]


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12.
[The Vampire Diaries]













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 025 secrets from Secret Submission Post #342.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: be honest

[diet_poison]

Fuck that shit. My mom was a SAHM for most of my childhood. You're basically implying that she's less of a person or less worthy of admiration than a woman who chose to work full-time.

Fortunately I am able to understand that not everyone has to be like my parents. It's almost like if your mom weren't a full-time working woman, you wouldn't be able to understand that full-time work is a valid option for women. As for me, I don't know what I want to do yet, though I'm pretty sure I want a career of some sort...I might prioritize family time when my (as-of-yet nonexistent) kids are very young, but I think I will work more than my mom did. That doesn't mean I can't look up to her, though; she's a wonderful woman who taught me a lot and has outstanding character.

Re: be honest

[(Anonymous)]

It's funny that you are the person equating career choices with personhood here. No one said your mother was less of a person. They just said her career choice wasn't that great. You're the one who's being unable to separate the two.

My mother was mostly an SAHM (she got a very part-time job after a while, only two short shifts a week). I don't think she's less of a person than me but I do think her life was unnecessarily limited and miserable and that the financial inequality contributed to an awful marriage.

Re: be honest

[diet_poison]

but I honestly don't feel I'd look up to my mom as much if she were unemployed.

Nope, that wasn't me.

but I do think her life was unnecessarily limited and miserable

I'm truly sorry if she was miserable. That said, your mom =/= all SAHMs.