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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-07-28 03:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #2399 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2399 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I hate how rapey that sounded. Like she has no say in this? He's going to pick up a woman, and fuck her. That's that. Consent? No, didn't you read my tumblr? Now shut up and get on your knees, sweatheart.

Fuck him
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[personal profile] othellia 2013-07-28 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you trolling? Why do you assume she has no say? He's being so wink-wink nudge-nudge about it all, of course he's not going to spell out a message about how they mutually agreed that they would be having sex for three days (or whatever they're going to be doing) when she got back.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It just sounds rapey is all I'm saying.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, they're trolling.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
meh

if hes talking about raping amanda palmer then i cant say that i care.

hell if he wants someone to videotape it and then dispose of the body then id be happy to help

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
would you like to borrow a brain cell? double your intelligence?

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:53 pm (UTC)(link)
YES! This is exactly what was bugging me about this, but I just couldn't put my finger on it! Thank you!

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
This. I always hate the "old man young girl" thing in real life relationships. They always have a sexually abusive vibe to them.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, she's 37. He's 52. She's not a child by any possible stretch of the imagination.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
What if she were his age and he said the same thing? I'm not being snarky, just curious.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Well then it would be icky because ewww, women over 40 shouldn't have sex, that's gross. (Unless it's Susan Sarandon, who gets a lifetime pass.)

Really, women can't win.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, I'm a young girl at 37? Cooooooooool! Tell that to my grey hairs.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-07-28 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
um...rapey? Really??

I don't see that at all...all he's saying is he's planning on having a good time with his wife; I think the "if she wants to" can be understood. For all anyone knows they've been talking about it via phone for days. You're leaving a lot of information out of that assessment.

Just because a man says he is looking forward to having sex doesn't mean he's going to, or wants to, rape ANYBODY. give me a break.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:01 pm (UTC)(link)
not to sound like a cliché from a 1990's sitcom, but that's pretty typical of men.
this is just how they talk and act towards women. the fashionable term for it these days, I believe, is "Rape Culture".

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Talking about having intimate time with your spouse is not "rape culture." Rape culture is a real thing, and trivializing it like this isn't helping anybody.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Yup, I'm sensitive as fuck towards rape culture, and this didn't read like such to me.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-29 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Too late. You sound like a cliche. Although I wouldn't say it was from a 90s sitcom.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh for fucks sake this is like the most inane facebook post my friends would make about picking up their SO from the airport because they're too in love to take a taxi. You are really, really reaching.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
How are you picking up rape undertones? I can't even see the sexual implications. You guys are reading way too far into this.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
What the actual fuck.

(Anonymous) 2013-07-28 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
OFFS, lay off the PC kool-aid. Just because the matter of consent isn't spelled out explicitly in ten-foot neon letters is no reason to conclude that it isn't an important consideration or that it hasn't been (or won't be) obtained. Sheesh.
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[personal profile] nyxelestia 2013-07-29 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure if you tried or not, but I'm a pretty big believer in benefit of the doubt.