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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-04 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2406 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2406 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
Because saying "it's disrespectful because it's disrespectful" isn't a reason.

You feel that something is because you feel that it is, and you aren't even capable of thinking about why it makes you feel that way.
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[personal profile] rivia 2013-08-05 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
If that's what you got out of what I said, well I won't waste anymore time with this. Have a good night then.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
So, that's it, then? Someone asks you to really think about why you feel a certain way and to come up with reasons for it and your response is "well bye?"

It must suck to be so afraid to question yourself.
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[personal profile] rivia 2013-08-05 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
I asked myself, "do I really want to bother trying to explain my reasons to someone who clearly doesn't actually give a shit about them and just wants to feel superior or something, or do I want to go do absolutely anything else?"

Guess what my answer is!

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
And yet, here you are!
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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-08-05 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Dude, come on, stop being a jerk on purpose. It's kind of obvious you don't even care about your position. You're only trying to rile people up.

But hey, you want someone to dumb it down even further?

It hurts other people's feelings.

That's why. That's it. It hurts people's feelings.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
I actually do care about my position. If I didn't, then I'd have been gone long ago.

You didn't dumb it down at all. You are the first person to actually give an honest-to-god reason. My next question would be, of course, "why does it hurt their feelings?" And you probably won't answer it. But I'm sure glad you answered the first one.
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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-08-05 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
Well you have a funny way of showing it.

And it hurts their feelings because someone they love and care about is being mocked.

Edit: And it kind of was dumbing it down because one of the dictionary definitions of tasteless is, "lacking in politeness, seemliness, tact, etc.; unmannerly; insensitive: a tasteless remark." The reason we have politeness and things like described above is to not hurt people's feelings. Essentially, in my head when I hear tasteless I think, "Oh, that person said/did something that shows they lack empathy for another person because of how that other person feels/views the situation." I hope that helps you understand people in the future when they say something is tasteless.
Edited 2013-08-05 03:13 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
I really can't say anything more now, because I'm feeling rather overwhelmed by how incredibly kind you are. I mean that sincerely. You seem to be a truly good person, and I appreciate what you've said.
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[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-08-05 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
Are you the anon I replied to?

Um, thank you very much for your kind words. I honestly don't particularly know how to fully respond to this so I will just repeat that I am grateful for what you have said. I truly appreciate it. Thank you.

If there's something else you have a question about in this situation I can try my best to answer it, if you want.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-05 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
BECAUSE IT IS MEAN TO HER PARENTS AND OTHER FAMILY!