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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-04 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2406 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2406 ⌋

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Re: Privilege

[personal profile] darkmanifest 2013-08-05 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
Realizing that everyone does awkward, terrible social shit is indeed critical (I have to remind myself of it every time I think everyone but me is awesome at being social), but I'd say it's less about how much pain different people feel over bungled social interaction, and more about whether or not that pain is stronger than whatever compulsion they have to be social. My mother is an extrovert who constantly agonizes over her mistakes and embarrassments to me all the time, but unlike me, it just isn't in her nature to retreat into herself. It's like she literally can't stop being a social person to some extent; even if she limits herself to casual associates and striking up conversations with people on the street instead of close friends, she's still got that constant itch to interact with people no matter how badly it goes, which I just can't relate to.
Edited 2013-08-05 06:43 (UTC)