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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-09 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #2411 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2411 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Supernatural/Jensen Ackles]


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[Mathias Lillmåns of Finntroll; Jonne Järvelä of Korpiklaani; Heri Joensen of Týr]


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[Welcome to Night Vale]


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[The Sweeney]


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[Kaizoku Sentai Gokaiger, RP]


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[Bioshock Infinite: Burial at Sea]


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[NCIS]


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[Fire Emblem: Awakening]


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[Daniel Sharman/Teen Wolf]


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[Chris Hardwick and Janet Varney]


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23. [SPOILERS for Strawberry Night, Strawberry Night: Invisible Rain]
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24. [WARNING for depression, abuse, suicide]

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Notes:

Sorry about that, miscounted during the week and it was a bit longer than usual.

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(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
da

Your reading comprehension failed. Pretty sure they meant that guys that take interest in traditionally "feminine" things aren't necessarily non-cis, and I've actually seen it around a lot that clearly if you're nonconforming in your interests then that means you're gender-nonconforming too, which is irritating.

For instance, I'm a girl that LOVES traditionally masculine things--I love playing football and rugby, I love video games, I love wood and metal shop, tons of stuff like that. But I am 100% completely female and I'm perfectly comfortable in that. I've literally had people tell me that I must be confused.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
It's kind of a form of doublethink. Claiming at the same time that you want to break down gender roles, yet insisting that those that don't conform to them must be genderfluid/trans/etc...

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Urgh, yeah, I get it now. I see people just using "assigned [x] at birth" when they're talking about trans people so often that I totally jumped to conclusions. Plus I just woke up and I don't think that was doing me any favors. Whoops! Now I feel pretty stupid.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
That's okay! Don't feel stupid. I think this is one of those topics that has nerves frayed on all sides of the issue, so it's easy to be on a bit of a hair trigger about it.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Thank you for being such a good sport. :)

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a cis woman and I can be incredibly femme sometimes and yet when people find out I'm into taking machines apart and learning how they work they insist that I MUST HAVE some 'problem' and should talk about it 'to a therapist just to be sure'.
One of my former friends even told me I should 'examine myself' because he didn't want to 'invest in a girl who secretly is a guy'.

Hate.
So much haaaaate.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 06:45 am (UTC)(link)
Trans* people often feel rpessured to act as close to the stereotype of their gender as possible, or else nobody will believe that they're really trans*. They also have people tellign them they're just confused, probably many more than those who do it to you.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-10 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no, I don't doubt that, don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm the more put-upon party or anything. All I mean to say is that one's interests don't necessarily have anything to do with their gender, and misgendering anyone based on what they like or like to do is a shitty thing to do.