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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-16 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2418 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2418 ⌋

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Re: Nothing changes

(Anonymous) 2013-08-17 05:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Well think of it this way. You can BE that 'nakama' and be understanding when they want to do other things without you. This is hard for me too. But the more I learn about friendships as a give-and-take, and the less I expect from them, the more meaningful they become. I've been learning to take joy in the joy my friends experience, and the ones I'm closest to also are happy when I am happy. You don't have to explicitly share moments to share happiness. It's a little complicated, but just understanding the other person and their needs does wonders for how you learn to treat them.