[ SECRET POST #2419 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2419 ⌋

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Notes:

Way early because taking dog to the vet. :c

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Comments

Re: Venting/kink thread.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

I don't mean to be rude so I apologize in advance if this is offensive, but...how exactly do divorce lawyers *know* what kinks their clients' spouses are into? I mean, I'm into some non-mainstream sexual things myself, but no one would know that because I don't go around talking about it (except with partners obviously). Unless the spouse tells the lawyer that they did whatever it was together, in which case wouldn't that make *them* a supposedly "unfit" parent as well?

Re: Venting/kink thread.

[mechanosapience]

Well, as to the first point, the client would presumably tell his/her lawyer about said spouse's kinks. Secondly, people can be in a relationship while being into different things sexually. Ideally, they give each other as much of what the other person needs/desires as they can, but sometimes, people are disgusted by their partner's kinks, and sometimes, people don't share all their kinks with their spouse. So, back to the divorce scenario. Everything is progressing more or less civilly when suddenly, the wife's lawyer reveals the husband's transvestism fetish. Now, the husband has to prove that he's not some sick deviant who is obviously not fit to be a parent.

Re: Venting/kink thread.

[(Anonymous)]

Unless the spouse tells the lawyer that they did whatever it was together, in which case wouldn't that make *them* a supposedly "unfit" parent as well?

Ah ye of little imagination. You're assuming the spouse did it as well. The other person could have did it with another person (with or without the other spouse's initial knowledge; i.e whether it was cheating or not), the one spouse could say they were coerced into it/didn't enjoy it/, in other words, lay the blame on the partner who initiated the kink, or they could even use past or future kinkyness against them. Like, if they know they met the new partner they left them through Fetlife or a club, or if the accusing!partner divorced them over the kink being a dealbreaker.

Re: Venting/kink thread.

[siofrabunnies]

Depends entirely on presentation. If person A says, "B likes to be tied up and hit! They made me do it!" or worse, "B liked to tie me up and hit me!" it often looks abusive to people not well acquainted with bdsm. If A just wants to get back a B, it doesn't end up mattering who liked it. Divorces very often make for vengeful acts.

Add in the lack of voluntary battery laws in many areas, and bdsm can even be criminal. Add children into the proceedings, and it's often pretty easy to see who wins the settlement.