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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-18 03:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2420 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2420 ⌋

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Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-19 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

It can be, but by the same token it was noted that her sister had been stressed plus the focus on *what* her sister was eating, and 'fighting to get her to eat a peach' comes off very well...'Do I want you to do!' Particularly when she 'just walked into the kitchen' before doing it. There's also very much an air of 'I must make her eat healthier!' to the whole post that rubs me wrong.

It just smacks of the exact type of behavior I've had to deal with when I lived with family who was controlling [and yeah. Hits the red flags I learned from them for that behavior].

[And I'm well aware it can be a symptom - I've actually had to deal with that symptom before. I don't take issue with that part, but with the OP's behavior/the way the OP seems to be reacting with.]
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Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

[personal profile] thene 2013-08-19 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I think telling people what not to eat is pretty unhelpful when really, just about ANYTHING can fit in a balanced diet, so I figured adding some supportive elements like regular mealtimes and fresh veg is always way more useful than attempting to take anything away.

Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

(Anonymous) 2013-08-19 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
...And you just completely ignored their point about controlling behavior - which is a pretty damn big red flag, if you're going to talk about those.
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Re: Just need to vent about my sister.....

[personal profile] thene 2013-08-19 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Not referencing every line of a comment is not an indication that it's been ignored, anon.