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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-19 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2421 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2421 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 051 secrets from Secret Submission Post #346.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Ditto. I had a fandom friend and she just kept wearing me down. I had to leave for my own freaking sanity. I'm sorry this happened to you, OP and everyone with similar stories in the comment section. It really does suck.

(Anonymous) 2013-08-20 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
Same here. I thought this person and I were close friends, but they had a way of twisting *everything* I said and did to meet their own personal anger issues, and finally we broke up. Of course, even though I considered it done, this person still continued to send passive-aggressive emails, STILL blaming me for anything and everything.

For the longest time, I felt terribly guilty, thinking there must have been something I could do to save the relationship. I ever made the mistake of going to look at this person's blog posts a couple of times -- only to discover that they were STILL bringing up my name is passive aggressive ways. It's been months now, and while I still feel sorry for this person, I am glad and grateful to no longer be in touch.

That said, OP, if you're still reading this, think about it -- are you better off with or without this person in your life. If you miss them and want to talk, give it a try and get in touch. The worst case scenario is for them to a) ignore you or b) get angry at you. The other possibilities are good ones, as far as I can see.

Good luck to you, either way!