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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-19 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2421 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2421 ⌋

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Re: Feeling depressed...homophobic bullshit at work

[personal profile] pantasma 2013-08-20 08:28 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, totally empathize, hon. I've definitely had days, weeks even when it seems like people just keep saying the same mean shit, and it really drags the emotions through the mud. I'm sorry you're having to deal with it, right now.

You're definitely not alone in (sometimes) wishing to be straight -- I've heard the, "If there was a pill" conversation many a time. While it's tough being "other," there are times when it's not so bad; you can even pretend it's part of "normal." In the meantime, I force an even bigger smile to try, kicking and screaming, to brighten their day. Just imagine how much anger and conflict someone who goes on about something that doesn't affect them, personally, must live with. What an exhausting way to get through the day!

(Another thought: do you find it hard not to say something, but you don't want to start a scene? I'm always curious if anyone else ever feels something like that...)