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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-10-08 04:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #276 ]


⌈ Secret Post #276 ⌋

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Re: 35 OP

[identity profile] roko-epsilon.livejournal.com 2007-10-09 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
You always being the initiator is not a good indicator (I mean seriously I NEVER initiate conversation with people because of social phobias and misgivings about people in general, but I still love most of the people I talk to). Also, have you ever... attempted to have conversation about things other than fic? Because I would only see that as a bad sign if you've tried to talk about other things and she became blatently uninterested or moved the subject around back to fic.

Re: 35 OP

(Anonymous) 2007-10-10 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
We have talked about things other than fic - it's gone fairly well except that she's never as interested/inquisitive about my life as I am about hers, which adds to the feeling of stalkerishness... but she's never turned the subject back to fic.

I don't think there's much hope for me. :/

Re: 35 OP

[identity profile] roko-epsilon.livejournal.com 2007-10-10 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't think you're in a hopeless situation! Give more nonfic conversation a try, do it often, or just... I dunno, ask her what her stand on your friendship is. Some people do not show interest very well (I constantly seem like I am ignoring people or not interested in what they're talking about both online and off, but I usually really am very curious and interested), so unless she seems very very blatantly not caring, it's still worth some more observance. Let her know if she ever has problems or anything you could try to help her (though don't try to be too outright about that) and that she's valuable to you if you don't do anything else.

Re: 35 OP

(Anonymous) 2007-10-10 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I can do that. For me the hardest part is finding just the right words, but I can give it a try. Thank you for being so willing to talk to me about it.