[ SECRET POST #2427 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2427 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

The blatant truth that relapses will happen is more helpful than the cuddly fiction that if you do absolutely everything you can you might, just might, not have one possibly. You're being optimistic, and that is nice, and you are trying to be helpful, and that is nice too. Nice is going to hurt her when the relapse comes though. Nice is going to amplify the inevitable sense of self-failure that always accompanies pulling out of a relapse. Nice encourages bucket loads of guilt over that perceived failure, and you can't *nice* that sense of self-failure away even though it isn't a failure in the slightest because it will always feel like it is until the relapse goes back into remission. Guilt kills people with depression, nice kills people with depression, false hope kills people with depression. So stop trying to be nice, because you're being a bastard when you do it and you be nice enough you'll end up killing someone.

[(Anonymous)]

This is probably the most incredibly cruel, twisted, and potentially dangerous form of trolling that I have ever seen here.

Being a dick to people on the internet because you have depression is not the same as being an addict, and you damn well know it. You should be ashamed of yourself for acting as if it is.

[(Anonymous)]

+1

[sootyowl]

I replied by myself down thread, but yes. Exactly this.

[sootyowl]

Yeah, no. OP might have a "relapse" (this is fandom not drugs or alcohol), but jesus christ, projecting much? I think you might be reading into everything way too much.

OP, should be free to do what they want. They never talked about crippling guilt or having spiraled into despair or intense feelings of failure on their behalf. I'm not saying they won't hit speed bumps and fall, but they are on the right track and if fandom helps them, then it helps them.

Locking themselves away from the internet won't help them. That isn't the answer to everything. People heal in different ways.

Thanks for telling me I'll end up killing someone if I'm nice. True class. I have depression and I have to say, hope keeps me going. And people being nice to me, keeps me going. Support keeps me going.

[(Anonymous)]

There is so much projection in this that I'm surprised a hologram of you didn't appear behind me while I was reading it. Whatever you or someone close to went through, I guarantee you don't represent every depressed person who has ever been born. See, I can do armchair psychology, too!

[(Anonymous)]

Wow. Wowowowow. This is just chock full of projecting and blatant lies. Stop. Full stop.

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck you and your shitty concern trolling.

[iceyred]

You're a horrible human being.

OP, ignore this asshat and keep doing what you're doing. Being nice doesn't cost anyone anything. You had depression. That doesn't excuse your behavior, but it makes it understandable. More importantly, you've taken steps to get better and become a happier, healthier person. Assuming the people you were angry at have grown up, they should be adult enough by now to realize you were in a bad place then, and didn't mean to behave as you did. They should be mature enough to accept an apology and move on. If they're not, that's their problem, not yours. You keep on being healthy.

[(Anonymous)]

News flash: everyone's experience is not the same as yours.

The only time I come close to relapsing is when I've missed a dose of my meds (sometimes unavoidable for reasons.) And then the relapse is like a bad static shock compared to the super-bolt lightening rages I used to have.

[(Anonymous)]

Dude, just because you're prone to relapses doesn't mean everyone else is.

Or if you don't like people being nice, I'll be a bastard per your suggestion and put it this way: So you fail at life. Stop trying to drag other people down and go be a failure by your miserable self.

UGH fuck right off

[(Anonymous)]

See this ..this is why concern trolling is the nastiest kind of trolling there is. Because you're fucking with someone while manipulating them into thinking you're trying to help them. You're hurting them while acting like you want to help them.

You're planting seeds of hopelessness in someone and claiming that it's for their own good.

I hope you know that the fact that this entertains you means that you're a nasty person full of hate.

YOU ARE HURTING A VULNERABLE PERSON. FUCK YOU... FUCK YOU TO THE DEPTHS OF SPACE.

At least other trolls don't pretend they're trying to help and don't do nearly as much damage because its obvious they're just jerks.

[(Anonymous)]

Relapses can happen, but that doesn't make them inevitable, and even the inevitable ones can be controlled with effort and care.

[(Anonymous)]

You're having a "relapse" of asshole. GTFO the internet.