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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-08-31 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2433 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2433 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
for God's sake you are not a freak for wanting an emotional connection before having sex (I'd say the majority of people are like that, whatever they may claim) and anyone who tried to imply you were is simply plain wrong. You don't need a damn label, other people need to shut the hell up about your choices, which are YOURS.

/Straight and had precisely one (1) sexual relationship in my life (still going on, it's called marriage)here. Also boggling.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)
That's not actually what demisexuality is, tho

I "want an emotional connection before having sex," but I am not demisexual, because I am capable of finding people sexually attractive based on how they look. That doesn't mean I want to run out and fuck them, but I am still attracted to them. That's the difference; that's what demisexual people don't experience.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-01 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt

Then is demisexuality different from being aromantic but not asexual?
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[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-01 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, if you're an aromantic who's sexually attracted to people regardless of prior emotional connection. I know at least one person like that.
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[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-01 01:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, exactly what above anon said. It doesn't have to do with the amount of sex I want to have or choosing to have or not have a sexual relationship. It is about my physical capacity to feel sexual attraction to people.