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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-02 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2435 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2435 ⌋

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Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-02 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't told him, no. I have crazy self-esteem issues, and truth to be told, I don't think I want to be in a relationship with him - he's very unstable and has a shitton of issues, I'm very unstable and has a shitton of issues, and within that year of being in love with him, it was five months of not seeing each other and me thinking we wouldn't see each other again, and three months spend on just getting into his bubble - we're on completely different social statuses, me being the weird troll-like girl on the bottom of the social ladder, and him being popular charismatic funny and dark one. So I had two months, and during those I thought it would be over anyway, so I choose to treasure what I got. We have spent two weeks together since we got back after the spring/summer, it's unreal.

He might still know though, he's a clever guy - thing is, I thought he felt the same way about me. And I was really good with this almost-relationship where we were constantly together, would probably fuck occasionally but not have the tie of a relationship.

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-02 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Then nothing can help you until you tell him or he acknowledge that your feelings exist, regardless of whether he accepts and reciprocates them or not. The end.

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-03 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Mhm, harsh, but you're probably right. I'm just really scared of losing it all.

Re: F!S help me

(Anonymous) 2013-09-03 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
He might still know though, he's a clever guy - thing is, I thought he felt the same way about me. And I was really good with this almost-relationship where we were constantly together, would probably fuck occasionally but not have the tie of a relationship.

1) Maybe he hasn't figured it out. You could be hiding it very well and not everyone is good at reading people on their feelings, even if they are smart and clever about other things. (You seem to have been wrong about his feelings, after all.)

2) Maybe an occasional-fuck, almost-relationship is not what he wants? If he thinks that's what you want, then he doesn't see you as long-term romantic relationship material. If it is what you want and not what he wants, then you aren't compatible anyway.