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⌈ Secret Post #2439 ⌋

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Coming in late but...

Regarding "playing doctor", every single person I know who works in medical or in a scientific field with any biological knowledge gets asked these things. Hell, I get a lot of it too from friends because I have had to learn how to parse medical-ese, look up studies, keep up on medical research, because if I don't, my doctors damned well won't (I have fibromyalgia, among other things; this is not an infrequent problem).

So half the time, I get questions from friends whose doctors didn't adequately explain the medication they were prescribed, about a quarter it's "I think I have fibro/RA/Lupus/EDS/Lyme, WHAT DO I DO?" (and frankly, with any of those, if you don't walk in knowing what basic labs should be run, you can be screwed... my RA was undiagnosed for THREE YEARS minimum because the specialist I saw didn't run the right tests), and another quarter it's "oh gods this thing happened and I have no insurance and what can I do and do I need to go to the ER but I can't pay for it help".

And I'm sure as shit no doctor, but WTF do you say, really. And like you've said, that's in the US. And frankly, I would ask the criticizers if they tell their friends to just go to the doctor anytime they have a medical question that they have a reasonable knowledge about (since it is not like basic medical knowledge is rocket surgery here).

Reminds me of a...disagreement I once had with a teacher in high school. If you absent due to illness, you needed some kind of doctor's note to go with it. The school's administration took parents' phone calls just as well and most teachers accepted that. This one - the administrator for my dance class, though not strictly the teacher - still expected a doctor's note for illness, or else it was a detention. I remember missing a few classes due to a cold and then coming in, going up to her and saying something to the effect of, "I was sick, how much detention am I getting?" She asked me why I didn't have a doctor's note if I was sick enough to miss class and I said something like "Because a detention just means spending the first half of lunch in the detention hall, but a doctor's note would be around $50."

I remember she looked very befuddled by that, and I was feeling very confused about why the hell she would be confused. So I guess people like that - who really insist on real doctors all the time no matter what the illness or medical issue is - exist, including in America where medical care is sort of infamously expensive.

Random anecdote aside, whenever someone says something to that affect, I have to wonder if they really never had some minor medical condition that they just looked up online or asked their friends and family about rather than deal with a doctor.

Granted, for me most of the calls I get are "oh shit this and this and this happened, am I pregnant now?!" (though now that my social circles have actual pre-med and other more biological or body-related majors/students, I don't get this as much as I used to). I usually help people with this not because they can't afford healthcare but because they can't let their families know what's happening. (In fact, I've seen prompts about Bruce on the kinkmeme asking for something similar, i.e. helping a girl who was raped when he was in a country where the victim could be punished for it.) Hell, the ones that were able to seek care from places like Planned Parenthood or something, I often hold onto the paperwork because they can't be sure such a thing would go un-discovered in their own homes. -_-

There are a LOT of reasons to want or need medical care from someone other than a doctor. Up until the wank about Bruce came out, I always thought this was obvious and a given. I could understand people getting upset with that bit of the movie because it hits some sore spots relating to the whole "white doctor/savior for helpless brown people" trope (though I disagree with that assessment on many, many levels). But getting upset that he's giving out medical care without proper training or a license? That confused the hell out of me and kind of still does.

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Re: Kolkata/Calcutta descendent (who also "plays doctor" in America) chiming in, here

Re: Kolkata/Calcutta descendent (who also "plays doctor" in America) chiming in, here