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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2442 ⌋

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chardmonster: (Default)

Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-09-09 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a legitimate way for bisexuals to get extra praise for dating trans people!

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-09 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
It's also a legitimate way for trans and intersex people to be more certain that the person they're thinking of dating won't freak on them if they don't out themselves right away.

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2013-09-10 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not obligated to lie about my community, my sexuality, or my politics in order to be easier for you to cruise.

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
That isn't what the anon was implying though?

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
How is it just wanting to cruise to want to feel safe as a trans person who might want to date somebody...

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
what?????

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
As a bisexual who used to refer to themselves as pan, I have to agree.
I used to be one of those obnoxious poopheads who would say "I'm not bi, I'm pan. That means I love ALL people, not just cis people" x__x

I had this "I'm better than other bis" attitude even though I wasn't aware of it at first.
I didn't realize that whenever I went on a rant on how gender didn't matter to me I made my best friend feel like a piece of shit for being "just" bisexual. Thankfully I caught myself being a shithead one day and could restore my friendship to her.

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
seriously? Thanks for this post.

People say so much biphobic shit in the name of pansexuality.

Re: Hey, pansexuality isn't made up!

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Or, you know, a legitimate way for people to be clear about their pool of attractive people. There are plenty of bisexuals who would not be cool with dating someone trans. And there are plenty who would be cool with it. I prefer to be clear about my preferences, which have frankly gotten me horrified reactions. "Ew, you'd date a tranny? But why can't you just date a normal person?" Because they're not who I want to be with at the moment dipshit.