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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
Or 3. The state of actually being incapable of feeling any sort of attraction to people you don't know very well, to the point where you may not even be able to identify whether a person is physically attractive or not. Because finding someone sexually attractive is not the same as having (or wanting to have) sex with them. If demisexuality were only about who you were willing to have sex with, then you'd have a point. But it's not. It's about attraction.

(Not demisexual, just not seeing how this is hard to understand.)
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[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-10 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks dude. The difference between attraction and behavior is something I'm continually confused to realize a lot of people don't understand. :\

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 06:00 am (UTC)(link)
And that's still how it works for a lot of normal people. How many people have you heard say attraction is all about their personality?

Like I see a picture of someone who good looking, objectively acknowledge they're good looking but not have any attraction to them unless I get to know them.

DA

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
But porn works for normal people. A normal person can totally pull up some pr0n of their liking picturing a stranger and get off to it.

Demisexuals are kind of fucked in that department.

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
When I watch porn, I'm not getting turned on by the people in the porn, but rather by what they're doing.

Which may sound weird...

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
So...the demisexual oppression everyone is screaming about is that they can't enjoy porn? Sorry, I call bullshit.
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Re: DA

[personal profile] vethica 2013-09-11 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, who's saying anything about "oppression"?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Still not different from majority. I was curious actually and I surveyed people on this. All thos friends who say certain actors are hot, fit and anything else and in-between wouldn't jump their bones. They just find them pleasant to look at. In real life, same people look at others on the street and comment "oh, they're nice!" while not wanting to rip their clothes off. Some start feeling attracted based on looks after a few meetings, some after surveying their date's personality for a long time. Aaaaand that is precisely how everyone acts around me all the time. Those who know they want to sex someone up instantly? They're the odd ones out. Those who are less than emotional? Yup, also weird.