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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-09 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2442 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2442 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Can demisexuals not identify a pretty face?

At least some can't. I have a friend that I think of whenever discussions of demisexuality come up, although she never used the word to describe herself. She once told me that she honestly had no idea whether a person was attractive or not, because physical attraction simply didn't register for her. She could become sexually attracted to a person and enjoy a sexual relationship with them, but the sole determining factor in her attraction would be her emotional bond with them.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 11:28 am (UTC)(link)
In the nicest way possible, the aesthetics of objective beauty don't really have to have anything to do with attraction. I mean, I can look at a sculpture or a painting or an interior-ly designed room or the cast to a US teen drama and aesthetically I can tell that they are beautiful without bringing my sexuality into it. I mean, if I google the cast of Dawson's Creek I can tell they're beautiful whilst their bland, pretty faces do absolutely nothing to elicit any kind of emotional/horny response.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-10 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
O...kay? So does that mean I'm engaging in sorcery when I look at my favorite superhero-movie actor and I get that warm tingly feeling in my pants? Because acting like physical appearance has nothing to do with sexual attraction for most people seems... well, deeply inaccurate is the nicest way I can think to put it.