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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-10 06:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2443 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2443 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sailor Moon]


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[Taken]


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04.
[Hetalia]


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[John and Edward Grimes/Jedward]


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[Zoolander]


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[X-Files]


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[Amanda Palmer and Paula Deen]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Corporal Rivaille from Shingeki no Kyojin/Attack on Titan]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 035 secrets from Secret Submission Post #349.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Diagnosis: fucked up

[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-09-11 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
Don't feel stupid and worthless - feel empowered because you have the choice to go - the *opportunity* to get health care. I'm aware that cultural baggage is heavy and hard to shake off.

But if you didn't want opinions on your situation that were different, why would you post here? Sure, i'm sorry your family and community think sick=weak and getting health care=worthless. That sucks.

But even so, you have the choice to move past it and, i image, a lot of people on f!s telling you 'your life/health is more important than what people think'. Which it is.

I'm sorry that what I said to you was hurtful, but someone too afraid of what their family thinks to see a doctor when they are *obviously* very ill makes me angry.

Not at *them*, but at people who can't see that someone's life and health is worth more than a skewed ideology that only seems to promote suffering. I don't think you're stupid, i think you're being treated *extremely* poorly, and i think every single person in your family and/or community that views you and treats you as 'less than' because you're ill is an asshat.

I hope you can see your way past what those around you think to the truth - the simple fact that your life is worth living without pain and illness, and that *you* are worth healing.