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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-13 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2446 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2446 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04. [WARNING for gore, blood, etc]

[How To Train Your Dragon]


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[Fall Out Boy's "The Phoenix"]


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09. [WARNING for underage]

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
It would be easy enough, seeing as I've been sitting on the knowledge that this relationship is not healthy for me (and possibly not healthy for SO) for half a year already. Except for the SO's mental health issues (don't want to give SO an excuse to completely shut down and do even less in the realm of looking for work), and the fact that I can't leave (in the process of buying a house from a VERY patient relative - SO's financial issues have not helped us get approved, long story short, though I've given up on SO ever getting credit fixed and am just focusing on repairing my own); I can only ask SO to leave, and there is nowhere for SO to go and no method of self-support.

Though admittedly, if SO is going to go sulk back to the parents' house and wind up living with them forever as I suspect, might as well happen while SO doesn't have a job a thousand miles from them.

(Yes, I'm trying to be decent to SO, because SO is still the one singular person I've ever liked well enough to voluntarily live with, let alone consider living with forever, but that doesn't mean I'm not incredibly bitter and angry and filled with venom.)

(Anonymous) 2013-09-14 07:32 am (UTC)(link)
You could do a clean cut and help SO get tickets back to their parents. :/

Sucky move, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
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That's half a year you should have left.

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-09-14 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
THAT IS THE ONLY CRITERIA THAT MATTERS IF YOU CAN FINANCIALLY LEAVE. Ask him to leave AND change the locks.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I just checked the internet, and a greyhound bus ticket from the west coast to the east coast is $226. I can only assume that sending them a shorter distance would be cheaper. But even if it wasn't, I promise it would be the best $226 you've ever spent to ship the SO back to their parents and move on with your life, because like everyone else is telling you -- they're never going to change, and if you wait until the SO is employed to break the engagement, you'll be engaged forever.

(Also, and perhaps I'm swinging too far to hyperbole, but I'm about 95% sure that if SO got a job, and you kicked them out, they'd find a way to lose the job and be back on your doorstep in no time. And find a way to make it your "fault" because that's what emotionally manipulative people do.)