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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-13 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #2446 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2446 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]




















04. [WARNING for gore, blood, etc]

[How To Train Your Dragon]


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05. [WARNING for child abuse]



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[Fall Out Boy's "The Phoenix"]


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09. [WARNING for underage]

[pokemon conquest]


















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ayrt

(Anonymous) 2013-09-16 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
That's really sad and I'm glad it lives in your memory as something you regret. I don't think you should beat yourself up too much about it, but I think it would mean something to those two boys if they knew how bad you feel as a adult. There's a girl back in my past who was ostracized for being who she was - poor, not very pretty, overly dramatic - and I still think about how hard it must have been for her, and how I contributed to that, even though I was by no means one of the popular people.

But I'm resistant to inviting nearly 30 kids to my child's party because if even half of them RSVP, there's no comfortable way for me to be pay for that many kids. I wouldn't even know WHERE to throw it because where I live is too small. Not to mention it's never just the child and one parent who shows up but both parents and ALL the siblings. Two years in a row, I even had a grandma show up along with mom and dad and little sister. So while I understand the sentiment behind the rule, I just don't think it's practical from a financial POV. I don't remember this rule growing up (I'm 42), I wasn't invited to a lot of birthday parties and I'm fairly certain it didn't scar me. I was disappointed, but I dealt with it and moved on.