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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-14 03:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2447 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2447 ⌋

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Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2013-09-15 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
your situation is not everyone's situation, though. it's great that you have the freedom, security, safety, and mental standing to have that distinction with your spouse. I do, too. I didn't always have this with other partners, and neither do a lot of other people. If you don't want to consider something you experience as ___, that's your prerogative, so long as you are not discounting other people's experiences. If someone tries to question it, they are wrong so long as you are not discounting other people's experiences. Basically, only you have the right to determine if you've been assaulted or not (unless said incident runs up against legal guidelines in your area, in which other input matters in that kind). With that, though, you don't have the right to decide if other people have been assaulted (save again for that legal guideline bit).