... there's this kind of .. really sad thing where reading that secret gave me pangs. bad ones. because I know .. almost exactly what that feels like and how it was so fucking painful.

I'm really sorry. I feel for you. I really, really do. But if it's gotten this far, it's probably the better thing that you've gone your separate ways. Those stories and logs and everything will be stuff you look back on in the months to come with a really confusing mixture of nostalgia and bitterness, but you'll end up keeping it all anyway.

♥ good luck.