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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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chardmonster: (Default)

Re: Wait

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-09-17 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Not really?

We have no idea how they define "the kinkiest shit." We don't even know how much actual ramping there is.

They might just be ashamed of being kinky.

Re: Wait

(Anonymous) 2013-09-17 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a good thing you put a question mark up there, because you absolutely should be questioning this philosophy that chooses to discount legitimate concerns because there might be another explanation.
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: Wait

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-09-17 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi Social Justice Troll.

No, I'm questioning the idea that we should be attempting to play Mental Health Bingo over a couple sentences about someone's fanfic preferences.
Edited 2013-09-18 01:50 (UTC)

Re: Wait

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
They said (implied strongly) vanilla porn used to do it for them. Now it doesn't, and they're searching for more and more extreme porn to even get turned on at all. And they can't even get offfrom those extremes now.

Your theory assumes a situation where OP gets turned on by their kinks of choice, then gets overcome with overwhelming shame and guilt that kills their arousal. Which, though possible, assumes a more complex and unlikely scenario in which OP is immensely unself-aware. I mean, if they were ashamed by a certain kink or kinks in general, wouldn't that be mentioned in their secret, instead of the relative lack of self-recrimination over kinks as a general concept we get here?

On the otherhand, going just from the OP's self description as well as the inference that this is something that they don't understand and is distressing for them, I don't think suggesting that it could be a porn addiction when it prima facie fits that description is that out of line. It's then up to the OP to work out whether that really fits them or not. (Note for OP: being ashamed of your kinks, or even having kinks at all, does not mean you have a porn addiction. Hope everything works out for you.)

Re: Wait

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
Ramping sounds like it could be a pretty fun kink. I don't know what it would actually be, but it's a good name.