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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-17 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2450 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2450 ⌋

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Re: ?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

oh is THAT where it's coming from? Yeah the accusation felt very out of the blue as I wasn't entirely sure if I'd done anything actively transphobic and I'm not sure I would classify my sexual interests in certain types of women as transphobic - but I was mostly baffled. I don't /want/ to be transphobic, but I am also NOT interested in penises - no matter the gender of the person it is attached to

Re: ?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
Sexual attraction is different for each person, and you aren't transphobic just because you aren't physically attracted to penises.

Re: ?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, some people have the argument that: they identify as a woman, you say you're attracted to women, so saying you're not attracted to them is invalidating their identity and thus transphobic. Personally I think it's ridiculous.
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Re: ?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-09-18 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds more like somebody mad they aren't getting any tonight.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-09-18 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
You are hanging in tumblr too much if you even have to question that. Until you actively start hating people born in the wrong body, you are fine. Not wanting to fuck someone with the equipment you are uninterested in doesn't count.

Re: ?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-18 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

haha most likely I have - it was just so out of the blue I had to stop and think about it as I wasn't so sure and some people were really up in arms about it but...can't force yourself to find someone attractive o_O
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Re: ?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-09-18 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly! And that's absolutely fine. The only way you could go wrong with this is if you were lying to yourself or others trying to fit into some dumb inclusive definition, as that could lead to actual misunderstandings and hurt feelings and regrets.

Not trying to appropriate shit here, but nothing wrong with being true to who you are!