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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-18 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2451 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2451 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-19 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
Seconding the "do what you like" anon. If you're enjoying yourself, your partner likely will too (because that silly fanfic trope about enthusiasm making up for a lot is totally true with anyone who isn't a raging asshole). And if you're ever unsure, asking "what do you want?" or "do you like that?" is always both sexy and useful.

Use hands as well as mouth whenever possible (or do what I do when I'm lazy and use MOSTLY hands, lol). Or let your hands touch him wherever you and he are both comfortable. Even with men with oversensitive other parts or who get jumpy if you try to touch the perineum (or more), touching the inner thighs or that big vein along the cut of the hip usually gets fun results.

To avoid gagging (if this is a problem for you and if you actually want to fix it), it sometimes works to tuck your thumb into your fist and squeeze. Idk WHY, but I read this advice once and it worked magic for me.

Also, do not be afraid to tell him to stop fucking squirming.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-19 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
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Also, rub or flick your tongue under the ridge of the head. You can also run the flat of your tongue over the slit (I would not suggest attempting to poke your tongue in without asking, as many fanfic say; I'm sure there are men who do like that, but some very much don't).

Eye contact is magic.

It's easier on my neck if he's sitting on the couch or edge of the bed, etc., and I'm on my knees than if he's lying down (though in case of 69, the angle is all different and becomes easier on the neck again).

When touching the thighs or hips or lower belly, feel free to change up the type of touch to keep it varied: palms flat with a lot of pressure, very light touches with fingertips or nails, scratching (if he likes that), etc.
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-19 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Slapping him and telling him to hold still, then delighting when he struggles to obey. Obviously. (But okay, that's not for everybody.)