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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-21 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #2454 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2454 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-09-22 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
As a lesbian who hates het fic/porn and pretty much excusively reads slash I really can't explain it.

I don't like 90% of lesbian porn because its clearly made for men and contains way too much fake moaning, fake tan, fake nails and fake boobs. Sensual porn with natural women gets me off, but thats so hard to find.

Gay (male) porn gets me off like woah, I never find myself sexually attracted to men and het sex grosses me out completely but for some reason 2 guys is a-ok. Also on weird level for me I feel like (and am speaking in terms of porn rather than fic so much here) there is an equality in gay/lesbian porn- you've both got the same equipment and even if ones giving and receiving you're kind of on a level playing field. Het always feels like too much of power imbalance. Just how I feel btw, I know thats not necessarily the case, het just squiks me beyond belief.

As for slash fic I think the emotional aspect has a lot to do with it too.

I dunno man, sexuality is one big confusing mess, I'm past the point of caring what I find arousing and how that relates to me "label" *shrugs*.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-22 07:58 pm (UTC)(link)
>>there is an equality in gay/lesbian porn- you've both got the same equipment and even if ones giving and receiving you're kind of on a level playing field. Het always feels like too much of power imbalance. Just how I feel btw, I know thats not necessarily the case, het just squiks me beyond belief.<<

I'm not exclusively gay but this is 100% me.
I'm only able to enjoy het porn when it's written. Even the most loving amateur het porn I found online squicked me a little. And that's coming from a woman who DOES enjoy the occasional sex with a man IRL.