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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-23 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #2456 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2456 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[China, Illinois]


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[The Mortal Instruments]


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[Community]


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[Hunter x Hunter, Senritsu/Melody]

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[Hetalia]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia]


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[Ghostbusters]


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[Teen Wolf]


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[Malik Ishtar from Yugi-oh Duel Monsters]


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(Anonymous) 2013-09-24 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Alllllllll of this.

Plus it can really mess with the head of the victim. To see someone who's been awful to you act fairly healthily and normally around other people can really bring out a lot of those "maybe I deserve(d) it because I'm uniquely crappy" feelings that perpetuate victims' acceptance/rationalization of abuse. Which obviously makes it easier for the abuser to get off light while the victim still suffers, even after the fact. (Without going into detail here, I'm speaking both from personal experience and from more recent experience actually talking to victims.)