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I know it hurts right now, but seriously, her saying that to you pisses me off for you. I ask my husband how he'd like my hair, what length, what color, and he just tells me to do what'll make me happy. So if I got a buzz cut and dyed it green, he would probably feel remorse, but that's because he figures that in my moment of brain-lapse that I didn't consider people would laugh at me, and he doesn't want me hurt. But in the end, he loves me for me, because if you're in love with the meat suit, you're going to be disappointed eventually.

Your hair is fabulous and you are so cute. Don't let this get you down. Nobody has the right to tell you "I don't love you because of [some part of your physical appearance] but if you just changed it to the way I like it, I'll totally love you again!" It's like a pair of mutual friends of mine that were dating and the guy told the girl he'd find her sexually attractive again if she lost the weight she gained while dating him. It had nothing to do with the weight, he was just going for a convenient excuse. He didn't want to date her anymore and made it her fault so he wouldn't be the bad guy. I wanted to punch him so hard in the face for months.

Anyway, tangent. You'll get through this, and you'll find someone that loves you whether your hair is black or purple or pink or orange, and whether you have no piercings or a hundred. :)

Thanks, Nonnie. You seem to have an awesome husband, then. I'm glad he's supportive of you and your choices.

The more time it passes, the more I'm loving this hair. Thank you for thinking I'm cute. I'm trying to get into that mindset, too. This saddens me because I really thought I was more important to her than just a hair color, but it's apparently a berserk button for her... And it's not the first time, either, that she has forced me to leave stuff or change things just because she plain hates it/them. I used to comply, because I didn't want to be alone. I'm a lonely person and she has been with me through a lot of stuff, for many years. But I will take a stand on this.

Again, thanks. The same reason that made me submit to her whims before should be a good reason for her to stay even if she doesn't like the color. It makes me happy! It makes me feel pretty! Why is that so unimportant to her in comparison? Maybe I do need another person to love.

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