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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-27 07:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2460 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2460 ⌋

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Re: clarification?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 05:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, it's not like there's a way to actually relax the vagina enough to not make the penetration "forcible". That would require arousing a vagina's owner and possibly stretching the muscles gently with your fingers first, and we don't do that round here.

Re: clarification?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm utterly confused about who's trolling what now, but just in case...

The woman's muscular contractions that make it harder for the penis to go up in there is one of the things that makes it pleasurable. If it slid in like a takeout menu under a door, both parties would fall asleep.

stretching the muscles gently with your fingers first

This is what comes from reading too much slash.

Re: clarification?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. A vagina is not an anus.

Re: clarification?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-29 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
stretching the muscles gently with your fingers first

This is what comes from reading too much slash.


Aaaaaaaaactually, as someone who HAS had trouble with penetration being painful (TMI: but basically, this is why it can be BAD to wait to have sex until you're older), my gyno suggested always starting with fingers before moving on to actual penetration because, yes, it helps stretch things out.

Sometimes, girls even need lube, too. It's not all just slashfic.

+1

(Anonymous) 2013-09-29 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
But in my case it has nothing to do with being older, just with, you know, different people's bodies being different.

Re: clarification?

(Anonymous) 2013-09-29 08:32 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, contractions are awesome. Nobody is saying the vagina needs to be loose enough to drive a bus up in there before penetration with a penis may presume. But the thing that makes it "forceful" is tension brought on by lack of arousal (I can get three or four fingers up in myself during the middle of funtimes, probably a hand if I've come - no way when I'm having a cold start) or being nervous.

Not everyone is instantly hot enough to move on to the full on penetration with a penis (depending on the size of the penis, too, of course! Bigger is not always better depending on the vagina in question). Finger is a great way to relax the vagina, especially in a nervous partner or in someone who really likes being fingered and is therefore enjoying the double benefit of manually getting the muscles to relax and becoming more aroused.

But of course, every vagina is like your vagina, and therefore these things don't exist! Fingering is not always necessary - just like it's not always necessary for anal - but it can sure be a nice way to get the natural relaxation going for someone who's naturally so tight that penetration would be painful or just not fun.