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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-27 07:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2460 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2460 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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05. [SPOILERS for something but OP did not say what]



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06. [SPOILERS for Dark Lord of Derkholm]



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07. [SPOILERS for Catching Fire]



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08. [SPOILERS for Breaking Bad]



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11. [WARNING for suicide]



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12. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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13. [WARNING for rape]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #351.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 (warning for rape) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing is, people might want to hear it and help and support you. It's just that helping people can be emotionally taxing, and if a person is being leaned on too often, or by too many people, it can drain them and start to affect their mental health.

The best option in this case is for the supporter to know their limits and set up boundaries so they can conserve their emotional energy.

It's also why having a large support network is beneficial for mental health. Because their need for support is distributed across a greater number of people, so none of them become overly taxed.

If you really need it, you should reach out. <3