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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-27 07:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2460 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2460 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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05. [SPOILERS for something but OP did not say what]



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06. [SPOILERS for Dark Lord of Derkholm]



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11. [WARNING for suicide]



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12. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #351.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 (warning for rape) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2015-01-03 06:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Think of it like doing a favor for someone. In a normal friendship that's a healthy part of give and take, you cover the pizza one evening, they pay for movie tickets the next time. There's no real need to count it up to the dollar, you just both enjoy getting a chance to treat the other person now and then.

But then you have a friend who never contributes. The two of you go out, you're paying for their meal, their tickets. They only call or message you because they need money. And you try to come up with ways to hang out that don't involve money, but they don't want to do that. They just want you to buy buy buy buy buy.

Now switch money with emotional energy. Normal friendships there will be give and take. You support them, they support you, and there's interactions that aren't about need but just enjoying eachother's company. Giving them a chance to support you during the hard stuff should be a way to let them know when they're in a tough spot you'll be there for them too.