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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-29 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2462 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2462 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 057 secrets from Secret Submission Post #352.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
chardmonster: (Default)

Re: Your mom totally has a point

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-09-30 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, this is a case of not actually reading what I said and instead getting weirdly defensive because I snarked about tumblr.

I find my online friends (real friends I've talked to for years, not "acquaintances")

That's pretty much what I mean by a friend and not acquaintance. Remember, we are on a website where people routinely complain that their "friends" don't talk to them anymore because they couldn't get into Sherlock or something similar.

Also realize that I was talking about the OP specifically, who got really into fandomsecrets because they lost RL friends and appears to be talking to us instead of people in RL, thus prompting their mother's off target but genuine worry.

I'm sorry your friends aren't good at hugging but that doesn't mean OP doesn't need to talk to human beings in person.
Edited 2013-09-30 03:22 (UTC)

Re: Your mom totally has a point

(Anonymous) 2013-09-30 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Defensive where? I am legitimately confused because I didn't write my post in anger or anything like that. Sorry if I sounded mad? Confused a little...

Um, moving on though, I stated in the beginning I was playing Devil's Advocate. Using my situation as an example that can be true, maybe nobody around OP is good at things like that either - again, people aren't so simple and encouraging OP to find RL comfort may not work out for them either.

You said, and I quote, "[h]uman beings need human contact" and I was pointing out that human contact didn't only mean in-person contact like you were suggesting. Hugs might not be necessary for OP, who knows!
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Re: Your mom totally has a point

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-09-30 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
I think this is one of those situations where tone doesn't translate over the internet! Sorry about that.