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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-29 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2462 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2462 ⌋

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Re: Why am I attracted to guys who are jerks to me?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-01 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
You haven't known or learned to appreciate anything better.

Also you haven't learned to like yourself.

You recognize that daddy is the root of this evil, but you either need to tell him about how much his neglect negatively impacted you, or accept that this is a man who will never be there for you in a way you needed him to be. And then give yourself permission to let him go in that sense and not be the predictor of your relationship(s) for the rest of your life.

On the other hand, if you're genuinely enjoying all this 'substitute for scolding' you didn't get as a kid, well... it's not up to me to say whether that's healthy or not.