[ SECRET POST #2464 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2464 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

Well, I figure that you can make a sliding scale that runs perpendicular to the gay<->bi<->straight scale, but demisexuality doesn't fit on it, because it's a condition under which you find people attractive, rather than a scale of how many people you find attractive.

Just because I feel like rambling about my thoughts to people who probably won't see it, I figure the y-axis to the gay<->straight x-axis of attraction would basically be based on like... % of people available to be attracted to that you find attractive. Roughly. It'd be like...

Hypersexual/omnisexual (hypothetical person attracted to every single person alive that fits their sexuality) <-> Average amount of people that someone is attracted to <-> absolute asexual (hypothetical person who can never be attracted to anyone ever).

Once you get low enough on the axis towards the absolute asexual end of the spectrum, you get the divide between 'sexual' and 'asexual', where there are so few people that they're capable of being attracted to that they're unlikely to ever encounter those people under conditions conducive to developing a sexual relationship.

The reason why demisexual is considered similar to asexual is that a demisexual who has never become emotionally close to someone who fits their pool of people they can be sexually attracted to will likely consider themselves asexual, because they've never experienced sexual attraction. I know I considered myself asexual since before I knew it was a Thing (I started out calling myself 'nonsexual' when I was, like 13), and then about a month after getting together with my girlfriend my libido was suddenly like "Oh, hello there lady!" instead of it's usual aimlessness. I don't identify as demisexual, though, because I dislike the nomenclature and also it's kind of pointless. It doesn't really tell anybody anything. I'm just mygirlfriendsexual for the moment.