The lack of the thanks is the part that really makes me go =/. Like the people above, I do agree that it sounds like she was shy, but she should have thanked you.
I do have something to add with the money part, though-- maybe she felt uncomfortable bringing it up? I'm super shy, and I've also been raised to Never Talk About Money, so I find it incredibly difficult/awkward to bring up money in any context, even if it's just, "I can pay for myself".
If someone doesn't mention it, and just pays for me, I can't bring myself to say something, even if I feel incredibly bad about them spending that money on me. But I do always, always thank them when they do pay for me. That is the absolute least I could do. So, while I can understand, to some extent, her actions, the lack of thanks is really throwing me off.
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I do have something to add with the money part, though-- maybe she felt uncomfortable bringing it up? I'm super shy, and I've also been raised to Never Talk About Money, so I find it incredibly difficult/awkward to bring up money in any context, even if it's just, "I can pay for myself".
If someone doesn't mention it, and just pays for me, I can't bring myself to say something, even if I feel incredibly bad about them spending that money on me. But I do always, always thank them when they do pay for me. That is the absolute least I could do. So, while I can understand, to some extent, her actions, the lack of thanks is really throwing me off.