As a writer, the big deal is someone else using your words and claiming them as her own by her incredibly vague disclaimers, and getting credit for them. That's lazy, and it's the antithesis of being a writer. She's a cheater who wanted the feedback and shit without putting the effort into it.

I don't hate her because I don't know her personally but as an author with a published book under her belt, it's not something I'm just gonna give a pass on.