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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-08 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2471 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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Re: When did gender become a thing for you?

[personal profile] thene 2013-10-08 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I grew up in a really traditional household, so gender was always kinda THERE. I also kept being told from an early age that I wasn't 'acting' enough like a girl, or that certain things I did were not okay solely because it was a girl who was doing them (eg. aggressive play). I remember my mother having a sadfit at me because I stopped wearing skirts for a while - she went on about feminine grace sometimes. :/ So I had it instilled that I was female, but really bad at being female.