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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-08 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2471 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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Re: When did gender become a thing for you?

[personal profile] lexicalcrow 2013-10-09 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
I've never really thought about it, either. I think I was aware that gender seemed to matter to other people, but it was never something I assigned to myself, and it never bothered me. I was happy being myself, and I had all the odd-ball loner friends, both boys and girls, at school anyway, so there was no pressure to be more 'girly'. I was just me.

It wasn't something I actually thought about in a deliberate kind of way until my early 20s, actually, when I was dithering about whether I was trans* or genderqueer. That's really the only time my gender was ever a Thing for me. It's not something that normally bothers me.