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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-11 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2474 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2474 ⌋

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Re: Last Night's Glee (Spoilers, TW for Death)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-12 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
The way I read that was that she wasn't coping with Finn's death and that wearing "mourning", so to speak, wasn't helping, but that she felt like if she stopped too soon people would think she didn't care. I had huge issues with that sort of mentality after my brother died - that if I didn't show enough public grief, people would think I didn't care that he'd died, and it made the grieving process a lot harder because it's really difficult to heal and move on when you feel guilty for feeling better. It's been almost two years and I still feel a wrench when I try to write because if I can write again, that means I'm doing better, and do I have any right to feel better when my brother is dead?

Also, um, if you're trying to be a grief counsellor, someone's personal grief really is all about them. Who else is it supposed to be about? You're grieving because you lost someone you care about. It's by default all about your feelings!