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Re: Unpopular opinion thread
(Anonymous) 2013-10-12 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)And like I said above I definitely think it's useful when used in contexts of people you're potentially interested in dating but I see it as more of a subcategory of gay, straight, bi, etc. rather than a completely entirely separate thing. For example I work with a man who is completely uninterested in sex. It's just not something he's into, and he's told me that when the other guys are talking about sexy people of their preferred gender he can never join in the conversation because he has no idea what makes someone sexy or not. I think this guy would be considered asexual by any definition I've come across. However, he has a wife that he's very clearly in love with. He considers himself straight and I don't know that it'd ever occur to him to call himself anything else.
I definitely get what you're saying that it's a useful disclaimer for someone you're potentially interested in because that's something they need to know but it also doesn't seem descriptive enough because yeah, sex isn't your thing but if you're still interested in a relationship it doesn't say anything about what gender(s) you're into. I guess that's where the various romantic labels come in though.