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fandomsecrets2013-10-13 03:23 pm
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-13 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-10-13 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)Most of the stories I've read was "suspected but repressed because of culture and circumstances and didn't allow themselves to give it serious thought. Only realized afterward, too late."
After all, why would they question? They're doing what everybody tells them they're supposed to be doing, and if the woman doesn't like having sex with the man but everyone tells her she'll learn to like it and that women naturally have lower sex drives and it's a normal thing...
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 12:43 am (UTC)(link)no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 12:48 am (UTC)(link)The discussion is unbalanced here, I'll admit. You can say all the people you ever knew totally knew beforehand, and it might be true. I'm not saying you're lying! But all I have to do is say that you can't prove that this is true of all people off of such a small sample size, and say that I've known some who didn't, in order to argue that "some" people don't know, and that therefore, given nothing else to go on, the possibility is there. Which is what I've been saying all along.
I'm not saying everybody doesn't know. That'd be silly. But I hope you're not saying that all people everywhere know, because that would also be silly!
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 01:28 am (UTC)(link)Secondly - If you are the person above me and the person two above that, you seem to assume that *everyone* needs to have some soul-searching journey or that Evil Society Overlords are programming their sexuality into them. It's not like that. Some people just know that they are X, they are not Y, and no, there's no possibility of being Y for them.
YOU may have needed to question yourself. OTHER PEOPLE may just know what they want in a sexual partner, no reflection needed/wanted. We aren't all reflections of the Sexually Confused Journey.