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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-13 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2476 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2476 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-13 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Whenever you hear about those couples it is generally one person who always knew but was repressed.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-13 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Really?

Most of the stories I've read was "suspected but repressed because of culture and circumstances and didn't allow themselves to give it serious thought. Only realized afterward, too late."

After all, why would they question? They're doing what everybody tells them they're supposed to be doing, and if the woman doesn't like having sex with the man but everyone tells her she'll learn to like it and that women naturally have lower sex drives and it's a normal thing...

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
You're reaching and trying too hard. The people I've known all knew.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Ahaha, and the people you know represent all of humanity regardless of culture or background! Unfortunately you can't argue that, as it makes no sense.

The discussion is unbalanced here, I'll admit. You can say all the people you ever knew totally knew beforehand, and it might be true. I'm not saying you're lying! But all I have to do is say that you can't prove that this is true of all people off of such a small sample size, and say that I've known some who didn't, in order to argue that "some" people don't know, and that therefore, given nothing else to go on, the possibility is there. Which is what I've been saying all along.

I'm not saying everybody doesn't know. That'd be silly. But I hope you're not saying that all people everywhere know, because that would also be silly!

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Firstly - At what point did I say that the subset of humanity that I know represented all of humanity? No, really, highlight that phrase for me.

Secondly - If you are the person above me and the person two above that, you seem to assume that *everyone* needs to have some soul-searching journey or that Evil Society Overlords are programming their sexuality into them. It's not like that. Some people just know that they are X, they are not Y, and no, there's no possibility of being Y for them.

YOU may have needed to question yourself. OTHER PEOPLE may just know what they want in a sexual partner, no reflection needed/wanted. We aren't all reflections of the Sexually Confused Journey.