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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-13 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2476 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2476 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-13 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT - But see, what I generally assume is "I don't know what they are, they could be anything, it's none of my business unless they tell me." I don't really get why you can't do that. Do you just go around looking at people and consciously say "Yes, all of these people are heterosexual, if they tell me they are not I will be very surprised because it goes against statistics!"? I'm honestly asking that because it seems like a strange way to think, to me.

And maybe you don't notice it in conversations, but I do. All the time. "I'm pretty sure that person is gay because [lists all the stereotypes]." "Omg that girl over there is a lesbian!", "All these people keep coming out to me and I totally support their rights but ew I'm sure never hugging them again."[Generic comment about the boyfriend or husband the person assumes I have].", etc. At best it comes off as rude, at worst it makes me think that the person would potentially be hostile if I came out to them.
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[identity profile] mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com 2013-10-14 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
"I don't know what they are, they could be anything, it's none of my business unless they tell me."

This is a good mindset. It is probably the closest description to what I - less eloquently - live by.